Never Settle for Less Than a Soulmate

When people hit a certain age, especially women, they are heavily pressured to “tie the knot” and “settle down” with a life partner. Unfortunately, more often than not, this results in the wrong choice of partner. Settling for anything less than a soulmate for life can be a grave mistake. Let’s examine why.

I was casually flipping through an English newspaper, and there it was. Page 8. “Find Mr. Right Before Age 30 or Settle for Mr. Second Best.” Well, isn’t that great? I’m being told to settle yet again.
The article talked about how too many women are swept off their feet by the idea of soulmates and that in real life they don’t really exist. Strong marriages are built upon trust and cooperation, we are told, not on that fairytale kind of love and romance we see in TV soap operas. Apparently we need to get our heads out of the clouds and by the time we are 30, that’s it, our clock has ticked away its time and we’d better find a man fast before we hit 40 and are still alone and miserable.
Right?
Wrong! Settling for the wrong mate could be the biggest mistake of your life. Why? Well, it’s really quite simple. You have to spend every day of your life with this person (with the occasional break maybe). You have to share everything with this person – the joys, the sorrows, the money you make, your kids! If this person is not your soulmate, your life might be OK, but it will never be great. You will never experience true happiness. And isn’t that what we are all after in this life? We don’t really want lots of money, a big house, and a successful career. We want the positive feelings that come with those things. And if you are with the wrong partner, you can be sure you won’t experience those positive feelings on a regular basis.
If your life partner is not your soulmate, it will affect you in more ways than you can imagine. The effects may range from subtle to catastrophic, but you can be sure they will be noticed sooner or later. If you are not with the right person, you may one day find yourself empty, because life isn’t very fulfilling when you are sharing it with someone, who you don’t have a deep connection with. And when that happens, no amount of “cooperation” or finances will help fill that gap. But when you are with a soulmate, all the other gaps in life are easier to fill.
Settling for second best in relationships is kind of like wearing a pair of shoes that doesn’t quite fit all your life. Maybe they look good, and the quality is not bad either, but if you are uncomfortable in them, eventually you will start hating them at best, or do some serious damage to your body in the worst-case scenario.
But it’s difficult to find a soulmate, isn’t it? Well, that depends on you. Basically, it’s like the old saying goes: whether you believe something is possible or not, you are absolutely right. It may take a little more than a belief to find the partner of your dreams, but everyone certainly has it within them to do it. The key is not to believe those who say it’s difficult and that there is only one soulmate for each of us out there. There are thousands and you just need to be open to the possibility of meeting one.
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